9 Quotes for Struggling Moms

Struggling mother at the beach with her two young daughters.

Being a mom can feel like you're juggling a million things at once.

Whether it’s the endless laundry, the dinner that needs cooking, or the tears (yours and theirs) that need wiping, it's easy to feel overwhelmed.

In these moments, finding comfort in words can be surprisingly healing.

Here are some quotes that speak directly to the struggles and triumphs of motherhood, paired with a little commentary to remind you that you're not alone.

9 Struggling Mom Quotes

Toddler having a tantrum.

1) "The days are long, but the years are short." - Gretchen Rubin

This might be one of the most bittersweet truths about raising children.

Some days, the clock doesn't seem to move, and you find yourself checking it over and over, but then, in a blink, you're buying school supplies for another year.

As a mom of four, I feel this deeply. Each day is a marathon, yet the milestones flash by at a sprinter's pace.

2) "Motherhood is a choice you make every day to put someone else's happiness and well-being ahead of your own." - Donna Ball

Every day as a mom involves countless little decisions, all made out of love.

From cutting the crusts off sandwiches to doing yet another round of 'peek-a-boo', it’s all about them.

And while it’s rewarding, it’s also really hard sometimes. It's okay to acknowledge that this level of selflessness can be as draining as it is fulfilling.

Mother with her hands on her head.

3) "There's no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one." - Jill Churchill

Amen to that - this is one of my favorite quotes of all times!

There's no one-size-fits-all guide to motherhood, and yet, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others.

Remember, the mom who looks like she has it all together is probably struggling just like you.

We're all making it up as we go, doing our best, and that’s enough.

4) "Motherhood: All love begins and ends there." - Robert Browning

When you feel like you're running on empty, remember the immense love that started your journey into motherhood.

Yes, the challenges are real and tough, but the love? It’s deeper, wider, and more enduring than anything else you’ll experience.

Struggling young mother with her hand on her forehead.

5) "I know how to do anything—I'm a mom." - Roseanne Barr

Let's be honest: moms get things done.

From fixing toys at a moment's notice to managing a full-blown crisis without breaking a sweat, the resourcefulness of a mom is unmatched.

This quote always brings a smile to my face because it's a nod to our everyday heroism.

6) "Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws." - Barbara Kingsolver

If you've ever held a sick child through the night or found strength you didn’t know you had during a tough parenting moment, you've lived this quote.

Motherhood calls on a type of strength that defies logic, pushing you beyond what you thought possible.

7) "To the world, you are a mother, but to your family, you are the world."

Remember this when you feel unappreciated or unnoticed.

The work you do isn’t glamorous, and yes, it often goes without cheers.

But to the little people you’re raising, and even the not-so-little ones, what you do is everything. You are their world.

Struggling mother with her toddler.

8) "Motherhood is messy. And challenging. And crazy. And sleepless. And giving. And still unbelievably beautiful." - Rachel Martin

Perfectly summed up! Motherhood is indeed all these things.

It’s a messy, challenging adventure, but it’s also filled with moments of profound beauty and joy.

Recognizing the crazy and the beautiful as parts of the same journey can help us accept and cherish the messier moments.

9) "Just when you think you know love, something little comes along to remind you just how big it really is."

Becoming a mom transforms your concept of love.

The depth and breadth of it grow with each child and each challenge.

It’s a vast, all-encompassing force that shapes every aspect of your life.

Tired new mom sleeping next to baby.

Takeaways:

Quotes can be little lifelines, tiny moments of recognition that pull us back from the edge and remind us we're part of a vast community of women doing the same tough, wonderful job.

If today was hard, let these words be your comfort.

You’re doing an amazing job, and you're exactly the mom your kids need.

Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed and to admit it’s hard.

You're not in this alone, even on days it feels like it.

Reach out, share your feelings, and let's continue to support each other through this beautiful mess called motherhood.

With love and solidarity,

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