Note on coffee table that says "declutter your life."

Mental clutter. Ughh, just saying the words makes my mind full too full.

As moms, we juggle so many things. All the things really.

School drop-offs, meal planning, our careers, keeping the house clean, doctor’s appointments, and on and on and on.

It’s no wonder our minds feel overloaded.

But what if 2025 could be the year you clear out some of that mental clutter?

You’re not alone in wanting more peace and less overwhelm.

The great news is that you can take small, doable steps to lighten the mental load.

Here are some practical and realistic ways to have less mental clutter in 2025.

1. Simplify Your To-Do List

We often expect ourselves to do it all. But you know what, we really don’t have to.

Look at your current to-do list. Now, cut it in half. Seriously. Prioritize only the essentials.

Ask yourself:

Does this really need to be done today?
Can someone else do this?
What would happen if this didn’t get done at all?

Sometimes, we add tasks that aren’t necessary and it ends up stressing us out.

We have to teach ourselves to let go of the pressure to finish everything and focus on what really matters.

2. Create a "Dump It" List

Ever wake up at 2 a.m. thinking about all the things you forgot to do that day or that didn’t get done? That’s not fun and it’s called mental clutter.

A "dump it" list can help. Each morning or evening, take 5 minutes to write down everything on your mind. Make your lists and get it all out.

Groceries to buy, meals to make, appointments to schedule, and random thoughts — put it all down on paper (or multiple papers!)

Once it’s out of your head, it’s easier to tackle it and let it go.

3. Set Small, Clear Goals

Big goals are exciting. But they can also be overwhelming.

Instead of vague and cliche goals like "be a better mom" or "get organized," break them down in practical and realistic goals.

For example:

Instead of "get organized," try "sort the kids’ toys for 15 minutes on Saturday."
Instead of "exercise more," try "do a 10-minute workout on Mondays and Thursdays."

Small and clear goals feel doable. Crossing them off will give you a sense of accomplishment — without the overwhelm.

4. Declutter Your Physical Space

Your environment and your mind are linked. When your home is full of stuff and clutter, your brain feels full and cluttered too.

Start small. Pick one drawer, one shelf, or one corner of a room.

Set a timer for 10 minutes.

Put away or get rid of anything that doesn’t serve a purpose or make you happy.

Little by little, you’ll start feeling better.

Overwhelmed woman by unorganized closet.

5. Use "Good Enough" as a Mantra

Moms are experts at setting high and unrealistic standards for ourselves.

The homemade snacks, the perfectly clean house, remembering everything, the Pinterest-level birthday parties. But perfection is exhausting.

In 2025, let "good enough" happen:

Dinner of frozen pizza and baby carrots? Good enough.
Kids’ clothes a little wrinkled? Good enough.
Kid wearing the same shirt that he wore on Tuesday (even though it’s washed)? Good enough.
Skipped a workout because you’re exhausted? Good enough.

Giving yourself grace clears out so much mental clutter and it’s just good for you in general.

6. Say "No" More Often

"Yes" can feel like the easiest answer - trust me, I would rather avoid conflict just like you.

But every "yes" to something you don’t really want to do is more mental clutter and it’s saying “no” to yourself (and often your family).

Practice saying "no" to things that drain you.

"No, I can’t bake for the class party this time."
"No, we can’t make it to that event."
"No, I’m not available for that extra project."
No, I can’t watch your daughter in the morning before school.”

Your time and energy are valuable. Protect them.

If the person is a real friend or deserving of your time, they will understand.

7. Delegate and Ask for Help

You’re not in this alone. Even if it feels like you are.

Ask for help when you need it. From your partner, your kids, friends, or family.

Kids can fold towels or pack their snacks.
Your partner can handle bedtime or errands.
Friends can swap playdates or lend an ear.
Groceries can be delivered.

Letting others share the load frees up mental space.

And it teaches your kids that helping out is just part of being a family.

8. Limit Information Overload

News, social media, emails — our brains are constantly taking in information and they are not built for the amount that we take in.

Try setting boundaries:

Limit news to 10 minutes a day.
Pick 2 times a day to check emails.
Unfollow accounts that make you feel bad or anxious.
Limit your time on social media or take the apps off of your phone

Less information means less to process. Your mind will thank you.

9. Build in "Nothing Time"

When was the last time you did nothing?

Not scrolling your phone. Not multitasking. Just nothing.

It sounds simple, but it’s powerful. Schedule short bursts of nothing time:

A 5-minute breather after school drop-off.
Sitting on the couch for 10 minutes before bed.
A quiet cup of coffee in the morning.

These tiny pauses clear mental clutter and give your brain a break.

10. Connect with Other Moms

There’s something about knowing you’re not alone.

Connecting with other moms can really help with the mental load.

Join a mom’s group.
Have a regular coffee date with a friend.
Share your wins and struggles with someone who "gets it."

Supporting each other clears out the feeling of "I have to do it all by myself."

Mother at kitchen table with daughter on her lap making a list.

Let 2025 Be Lighter By Reducing Mental Clutter

Mental clutter is real, but it doesn’t have to rule your life.

This year, give yourself permission to simplify.

To say "no." To ask for help.

You’re doing an amazing job. And you can have a lighter, clearer mind.

With love and solidarity,

Ready to stop the mental clutter? Let’s connect!

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